By Anita Garner
What could we do if we weren’t afraid?
Are we better off accepting our fear? Should we keep trying different ways to overcome it? Some advice about dealing with fear says acknowledge the fear, addressing it directly.
“Hello old nemesis. I see you there. I feel you too. Stay here if you want to, but I’ll be going around you to get to where I need to be.”
My brother and I had many conversations about the subject, coming from an unusual childhood where fear of doing/saying the wrong thing was ever-present. We wondered how much each of us should credit fear for the progress in our lives.
We looked at how many things each of us had learned to do and concluded that fear was a big motivator in much of what we’d achieved. Fear kicked our butts. Got us going.
Obviously fear is also paralyzing. I’ve been there too, and I wonder which is the more frequent result:
1) Fear causing us to run away from something before giving it a chance, or
2) Fear causing us to run toward something that turns out to be good.
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