{"id":2365,"date":"2019-02-27T15:34:43","date_gmt":"2019-02-27T21:34:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theagingofaquarius.com\/dw_blog\/?p=2365"},"modified":"2019-02-28T06:48:15","modified_gmt":"2019-02-28T12:48:15","slug":"cough-drops","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theagingofaquarius.com\/dw_blog\/cough-drops\/","title":{"rendered":"Cough drops"},"content":{"rendered":"

by Dave Williams<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve had a chronic cough since just before Thanksgiving, 14 weeks to be exact. That\u2019s a long time for a cough to linger and I\u2019ve not ignored it. After two visits to my doctor, a chest x-ray (turned out clear) and a passel of expensive steroidal and antibiotic prescriptions and inhalers, to say nothing of a hundred bucks worth of over the counter cough syrups, suppressants and antihistamines, I\u2019m still coughing. My doctor is a learned and experienced man but he\u2019s stumped. He\u2019s talking about sending me to a pulmonologist. (I had to look it up: that\u2019s a specialist in respiratory matters.)<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>I\u2019m not writing this because I’m worried about my cough. I\u2019m just taking note of this moment in my life. At 67 I\u2019m experiencing something totally new: the unexpected idea that I may be entering an age of increasing infirmity, of nagging pains and niggling problems that I might have to drag around to the end of my days.<\/p>\n

I rarely get sick, not even a cold, but suddenly I’m starting to feel a bit frail for the first time. Coughing wears you out and makes you think.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Roughly 40 years ago I suddenly realized that I would never play baseball again. Real baseball, I mean. Unwillingly I made the transition from hard-breaking fastballs to the high arcing lobs of a bigger, softer target. Slow-pitch softball is fun but it\u2019s not baseball.\u00a0 Now, a couple of decades later I miss them both.<\/p>\n

About 20 years ago I was suddenly relieved of the daily responsibility of parenting. Our oldest son was married and our youngest son had just moved out. CarolAnn and I celebrated our freedom as new empty-nesters. We loved it yet we missed having children in the house. Family time became the two of us time, which is wonderful though still bittersweet. We will always miss our boys.<\/p>\n

There have been other life transitions of course, less notable and too numerous to mention. The thing is, after nearly 70 years of living I\u2019m starting to see a pattern, a constant ending and renewal of a single life\u2019s experiences and perspectives. In 1984 author Gail Sheehy kicked off her enormously successful series of books about the subject she called Passages<\/em>.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>From toddler hood to old age we who are lucky enough to live long lives are constantly saying goodbye to one time of life and entering the next with some trepidation. That\u2019s the excitement of the journey. With great luck, or by design if you prefer, life is a very long road of wondrous yet worrisome discovery.<\/p>\n

I feel like a slow student, coming to this realization as recently as I have but I\u2019ve been too busy living to take notice of passages. I\u2019m just now beginning to understand something that should have been obvious:<\/p>\n

Lives are lived as chapters of precious stories belonging to the world and yet as unique as ourselves.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t miss baseball as much as I did 40 years ago. And frankly, though I will always enjoy memories of having our boys at home, I\u2019ve gotten over wistful nostalgia pretty well and cherish my daily solitude with CarolAnn more than ever.<\/p>\n

This cough is forcing me to hire a younger man to do my yard work. I hope that’s just temporary but the fact is I may never mow a lawn again. That seems trivial but I\u2019m starting to miss trivial things as well as the big, profound stuff. At the same time I’m learning to shrug off the life I’ve known for whatever surprises come next. We all are.<\/p>\n

Life is a kaleidoscope. Every slight turn brings a shift in perspective and a dazzling new view of the world we’ve always held.<\/p>\n

If this all sounds a little loopy, just blame the meds.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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